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How to Create a Loving Voice

What’s a loving voice? We all know what an irritated, impatient voice sounds like.  No, that’s not love at all.  When we hear this tone, the voice is very animated, the rate is fast and the rhythm is short and staccato; perhaps the volume has increased, too.  (Think Lisa Simpson.)  It’s so identifiable, isn’t it? And it’s not a good feeling to be on the receiving end of it.

If irritation and impatience are easy to spot in someone’s voice based on a few characteristics of speech, language and voice, what characteristics are present when you hear a friendly, warm and loving voice?  Is it just the opposite of the impatient voice?  Well, let’s take a look…..

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The Top 8 Speaking Distractions and How To Fix Them

Are you trying to persuade someone (or a group) to see your point of view but your 

message seems to allude them?  Working with many clients over the year, there are speaking habits that are detractors and ultimately (but unintentionally) affect the speaker’s credibility.  The speaker may be totally oblivious to the distraction, too, unless they have sought out the feedback or someone has boldly spoken up. Most people don’t give their opinion though as they feel unqualified to do so or they are afraid of offending the person needing the feedback.  Since a lot of distractions occur without knowledge that they exist in the first place, here’s a crash course to help you identify potential issues. This checklist of common distractions are easy to fix with self-awareness and self-monitoring.  Remember that any behavior that causes your audience to think about something else (and not you, the speaker) will take away from your message. As soon as that happens, your credibility suffers.

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How to Use Breath Support to Reach Your Full Voice Potential

Do you tuck your tummy in a bit to make it look tighter?  Does your voice shake before you speak to a group?  Do you slouch in your chair at your desk?  Do you carry a lot of tension in your shoulders, neck and jaw? You are not alone–a lot of us develop bad habits!  And if you do, you probably aren’t using proper breath support which is essential for reaching your full voice potential and having a well-functioning and relaxed sounding voice. As you move towards more in-person meetings and conferences, this is a great time to focus on breathing properly so your voice is clear, loud and effective.

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Struggle to Understand A Foreign Accent?

Ever heard the phrase “It’s not you, it’s me?” Frequently, it is an excuse that is used by someone in a relationship who is breaking up with the other person.

But the same can be said for the listener who is struggling to understand people speaking with foreign accent…”It’s not you, it’s me!”    The listener has ownership in the problem, too.

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